This is such a misunderstanding. The girl is pulling away to test how you respond to that pressure which is a natural need for her to find someone strong. But the guy might actually feel like she is leaving for real or doesn’t like him anymore. And you know..she isn’t testing how the guy responds to her leaving forever.
It’s literally just a pure wait. Until there is green light. She is literally testing how good you are at waiting…
And you know, if you are lost in that movie, it won’t do it if you feel like ok I’m gonna not call her/write her, but then when she gets back in touch, that built up excitement shows and gonna give her a wrong confirmation. Because this excitement is not at all giving her any of the information she was looking for.
And anyway why would it not be true that it has to be a fucking drama/misunderstanding when the feelings are so intense? What else but that would it be? But okay that is still of drama.
I mean it’s no issue if you know that. Then you just let her and like wait like at the traffic lights. Let her do her test you know 🙂 Just let her do it even though it has no point.